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Episode 37: Tough Love

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Some of the deepest wounds don’t come from strangers.


They come wrapped in the words, “I’m just telling you the truth.”


Somewhere along the way, we started confusing harshness with honesty and cruelty with strength. But Scripture never tells us that love should wound just to prove a point.


Real love restores.

Real love corrects with compassion.

Real love tells the truth without forgetting grace.


Sometimes what we call “tough love” is just pain wearing a righteous disguise.


This week’s episode is for anyone who’s ever been told that being broken was somehow good for them—and for anyone learning that Jesus never confused conviction with condemnation.


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